Let’s Talk about Confronting Crushes (online or not)


Let's talk about confronting crushes online or not quarantine rambles 1

Greetings peeps!

I hope you’re all having a good day, hope you’re not too bored at home and also hope you’re all safe and healthy. Today I’m gonna talk about something I’ve never talked about

on my blog, of course.

Welcome to Quarantine Rambles #1!

You know, as we’re all home all the time and we have nothing to do *well, actually we have homework and stuff to study and many more things, but you know* many people have been posting on their instagram stories more often than they usually do. Me included.

And obvs all the content creators and instagram posts and memes have been about Coronavirus and this effing quarantine mostly. And I don’t know of you know, but a lot of posts are like:

  • “Now that we’re in quarantine, you could take advantage of it and say you have a crush on me”
  • “We’re in quarantine and you’re not replying to my stories?”
  • “You have till the end of this quarantine to propose”

And 💩 like that.

I mean, life is short and sometimes there are situations in which you have to swallow your shyness and fear of rejection and ask the one you love out, cause otherwise you may lose them forever or may not find someone like them. But let’s be real, that sh!t‘s hard!

Ok, so I like somebody, right? Pretty much everyone does. And months before liking that guy I was thinking that if I ever met someone I liked and I could tell they liked me back, I’d ask them out. But girl, this is not the case 😂😂

The thing is: a) I know he doesn’t like me *I know for a fact, but that’d be TMI* and b) I know he likes someone else *again, not saying it cause TMI*

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I’d like to think I’d have the guts to tell him something, at least on instagram, but because I know he doesn’t like me, I just don’t wanna make this more awkward. And also, I don’t even like him that much and I have a dignity 😂

And I was thinking, if he likes someone else, why on freaking earth doesn’t he ask her out? At least on insta. Also cause like these days people are only sending freaking innuendos to everyone (or at least talking about sending innuendos).

I mean, let’s be honest here, he’s really handsome, he looks like he came out of a movie, no joke. 🤤🤤 I don’t think she’d tell him no, although you’d be surprised, maybe she likes other types of guys. I dunno 🙄🙄 whatever

I don’t see why he’s not asking her out, but also I’m not asking him out, I don’t know if his crush has a boyfriend or likes somebody else, and I have no idea whether someone out there even likes me or not, so it’s just a continuous loop of disappointment and frustration 😂😂😂

They say in those Instagram posts: “Actually it would be so easy”; well speak for yourself!

Time-out: I just wanted to make clear that I’m not sad, I’m not like super upset about the fact that he doesn’t like me, nor the fact that he likes another girl. I’m happy, this crush is very “mild”, if I can call it that, and there’re plenty of fish in the sea. 🙃🙃 Also I’m happy alone, so I’m not desperate 😜😂

I don’t know why I did the “time-out” thing cause that’s pretty much all I had to say. Wait…

Conclusion:

  1. People say it’s really easy to ask someone out or confront your crush, but it’s not, and that’s ok.
  2. Even if you think someone looks really good, not everyone will share that opinion; the beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
  3. Always put your dignity first. And don’t act desperate.
  4. This quarantine is making people nuts.

💔💔💔

Share your thoughts with me!

Do you have a crush? Do you know if they like you? Are you close with them? Do you know if they like somebody? Do you think people are going crazy on instagram? Have you ever asked someone out? Tell me everythinggggggggggggg

I hope you liked this post as much as I liked making it, I love rambling here! I also hope you have a great day/night and a great rest of the week! All the best to you and your family!

Massive hugs!
Ana Regina 🍩

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6 thoughts on “Let’s Talk about Confronting Crushes (online or not)

  1. Ewww crushes 😂 JUST KIDDING. kind of, anyways 😂. I’m in the same situation as you basically, the boy I like likes someone else (or so he says) but he kinda is flirty towards me sometimes? I’m so confused, boys are CONFUSING! Loved this post, and I agree that this corona virus is making people crazy 🙄

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    • Ew crushes right? Omg they’re so stressful 😛
      He’s flirty with you even though he “likes someone else”? Maybe he’s trying to make you jealous or something. Or maybe he’s just a player, you know? Who wants girls to like them even thought they don’t like you, you know? I have no idea, people are complicated 😂😂
      And THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!! Yeah omg I hope people chill a little bit

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